Iyanla Vanzant examines what happens when the thrill is gone in relationships

I am so pleased that I was able to see Iyanla Vanzant in London on the 24th June 2017. What an inspirational show.  What I loved about the show was how transparent Iyanla was, and her willingness to share her personal experiences, and learning. At the end of the show there was a Q&A segment, and lots of healing took plac.

I have many of her books,which my counselling clients have found very helpful. I watch her R spot series on relationships, regularly.

Below is a recent episode where Iyanla talks about examining what happens when the thrill is gone in your relationship. This tends to be a point where most people I see for couples counselling, make contact.

The moment they knew their marriages were over

I read about Lisa taking revenge on her cheating husband. in the paper this week. It seems that this was the only way she could communicate with her husband, and wanted her message to have maximum impact, as it seems like she got to the point of no return. I wondered what strategies she may have used to try and communicate with her husband in the past.

The Huffington post has an interesting article on men revealing the moment they knew their marriage was over.



This is Larry Bilotta  view on signs your marriage is over.

I see couples for person centred couples counselling for a number of reasons. Couples usually approach me when there is a communication breakdown, which could be caused by infidelity, death of a child, overpowering in laws,  financial change and many other reasons. Some couples are able to save their relationships, and some couples realise it is time to move on,